That's why I suggest that you masturbate when you are quite sure you are alone. You may need to use your hands to steady your toy. And if you are pretty vocal with your solo act, you may want to be out of earshot of people. Remember that you're experimenting and don't need to impress anyone. Enjoy your body. Natasha, I never was able to cum before until I began experimenting with two vibrators at the same time. Read First: Dirty Talk 2.
Sure, exercise is a great way to relieve stress and improve your sleep. Masturbation is a safe and natural way to feel good, discover what gets you hot, and release built-up sexual tension. Keep reading to learn more about masturbating with a vagina, how you can get started, and what you can do to really turn up the heat. Remember though: This will vary from person to person. Set the mood.
You should be good in bed even if you're the only one there.
Which is understandable! Masturbation might not be as taboo as it used to be, but we're still not encouraged to be as experimental and adventurous in our solo sex lives as we are in our regular ones. To help you get some new ideas, BuzzFeed asked people of all ages, genders, and sexualities to describe the nitty-gritty of how they actually masturbate. Here are tips from our readers with vaginas that you might want to try yourself. I finally just sprung for two vibrators and now I keep one on my clit for steady vibrations and use the second one on my G-spot.
If you're reading this, chances are high that you've already spent some amount of time reading sex tips and tricks to use with your partner. Not to be corny, but: hi, you are your own best sex partner, which is why you landed here, on a list of ways to make your solo sex life the absolute best. Masturbation or masty time, if you will is a great way to unwind, treat yourself, learn more about your sexuality, and yes, improve your sex life , in general. It's maybe the most important sex you have no pressure. And yet, once you find a routine that works for you, it's far too easy to fall into a rut where each solo sesh is exactly the same.